Sunday, August 31, 2008

Is It True ?



While Reading newspapers and magazines, I found such type of strange confessions. Every husband on this planet claims that his wife is most beautiful in the world. Similarly, every woman in the world claims that her husband is most handsome man on the planet. But I feel that they all are liars. How can they say like that ? If their wives are most beautiful women in the world, then what about others? Are they ugly ? If their husbands are handsome, what about others? The fact is that everyone is trying to appease each other. Ridiculous. Am I right or wrong?

9 comments:

Tanweer said...

I strongly disagree..ur completely wrong...first n foremost..bauety lies in d eyes of beholder...Laila Kaali jarur hai..Lekin sabko apne biwi pe garoor hai...n when they say that my wife is most beautiful...it never means that others are ugly...come on dude..wake up....

your sassy little reporter said...

You know what, it is better to hope that this is the case so people will remain monogamous; it is better to hope than be pessimistic. There is nothing wrong with people being loyal to their partners and putting them on a pedestal. What is wrong is people trying to find dissatisfaction and faults with their spouses.

Plamena Markova said...

Sorry but it's true - when u love someone he/she's the most beautiful person in the whole planet. That's why people in love are the happiest - because they have the biggest treasure.

Катюша said...

Love is blind, isn't it? I think people tend to idolize their partners, even if they're not pretty or handsome.
And every mothers idolize her child.
There's nothing wrong with that, I think it's a part of love.

Wahokia said...

It is in the intimacy of a love relationship like marriage that those committed peel back the layers of complexity that comprise the other.

The bloom of youth fades with time; the richness of experience shared with another deepens and grows on into eternity. It ceases to be surface, easily frozen in a frame. It is dynamic, buoyant and rich, no longer captured in a single moment, but in the shadows and subtleties of a thousand, thousand intimacies, a motion, no longer confined in time, no longer linear, but passing easily from yesteryear to tomorrow and back.

So when someone who knows says the heart is beautiful, do not even attempt to peek below the surface. You will never see it. Just accept this truth.

And may your life be so blessed, Deepak.

Kadri said...
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Kadri said...

To a degree I do think that they are lying either to others or themselves for various reasons. It's not politically correct to say that your partner is not the best person in the world in all ways, it seen as some sort of betrayal. In reality the majority of the population in this world is average, so most partners has to be average too.

There is also the thought that you can't love someone that's not perfect, for some strange reason. It's like the general idea is that imperfections makes relationships and marriages fail. Reality check please!

My husband is not the most beautiful man in the world, far from it. He's not perfect, he's actually missing a couple of body parts. He's a grumpy old man and the stroke has taken bits and pieces of his memory. I still love him and I plan on staying with him until death does us apart. His imperfections and his very annoying habits does not make me love him any lesser.

People could argue that it's about inner beauty, but most often when you talk about the qualities that creates the inner beauty you use words such as personality not beauty. It's most often when ugly people don't qualify for physical beauty that the "inner beauty" card is pulled. Besides, if you have ever seen the inside of a human you know that it's not pretty. Blood and gore and stuff.

Babi said...

I think you're right. But not because these arguments.

The truth is that we should be more truly and sincere lovers. We don't need to listen that we are the most beautiful girls in the world, we just need to know that we are truly adore and wished.

Thanks for the comment! ; )

Bastinda said...

as for me, if I Love smb, he is the best person in the World! I understand that there are men who can be more handsome, cleverer and so on... But My Man has smth which gives him an opportunity to be the best... for me, first of all.